There are many different types of sexy out there, and when it comes to men, every woman finds different things sexy. Gone are the days where bulging biceps and a chiseled jawline are the only markers for what is defined as sexy in the men we meet.  Welcome to the 21st century, where intelligence is sexy, chivalry is sexy, and communication is sexy. Luckily, we now live in a world where we can define what we find as sexy for ourselves. However, that doesn't necessarily mean that you can attract what you find sexy. As a matter of fact, it isn't uncommon for a woman to attract a man she doesn't find sexy at all. This is simply an unfortunate side effect of the laws of attraction, but there are ways around it. Remember that your specific personality attracts other specific personalities, and if you tweak a few things here and there, you can attract whatever kind of man for whom you're searching.

Answer these questions, and we'll tell you what kind of sexy man you attract, and (if it isn't the sexy you want to attract) how you can dodge their attention without changing your core values.